Break-up Spells – Breaking up a Couple or Removing a Rival

Break-up Spells

Last Updated on June 29, 2022 by Wishbonix

What Break-up Spells Can Do For You

If you know your partner is cheating on you, it might be tempting to simply let them go and believe that your love wasn’t worth your time. But when you know your love is deep and genuine – and they feel it too – it’s worth trying to fight harder to keep your relationship intact.

By using our free break-up spells, you will be able to strengthen your relationship, and you will begin to change the way that your partner acts within it and outside of it. These rituals will make them feel less desiring of the other person, while the other person with whom they cheated will also begin to lose interest. If you require a professional spell caster to cast a break-up spell, please click here for our recommendations.

You may want to cast these break-up spells in conjunction with love spells to return a lost lover if your relationship is already on the verge of ending or has already ended.

Without harming free will, these spells will allow you to change the course of your relationship. You will begin to see that your partner is the loving person they were before, and they are even more devoted to you than before the affair. Though you might think that love is perfect, it can have its ups and downs. With free break-up spells, you can protect your love’s beauty and purity and remove the obstacles that cause you pain.

When to Use Break-up Spells

The break-up spells also come in handy when your lover or friend is in a relationship with the wrong person. These types of spells are also very effective in ending unhealthy relationships. Once they’ve been cast, you can see the relationship fall apart. We’ve all been there when we want to help but do not know how. Unfortunately, we can’t change their attraction to one another. We feel frustrated when we see our friend or lover (or even ourselves) in the wrong relationship.

Warning: Remember to use break-up spells only when it is absolutely necessary. Some forms of magic do not agree with separating other people and consider it an unethical use of magic. It would be best if you always did as your own tradition permits.


Correspondences for Break-up Spells

  • Best Time of Day: Dusk, Midnight
  • Best Moon Phase: Waning Moon Phase
  • Direction: West
  • Zodiac: Capricorn, Pisces, Virgo
  • Season: Winter
  • Numbers: 3, 13
  • Colors: Black, Gray, White
  • Planets: Moon, Sun, Saturn
  • Tarot: Death
  • Rune: Dag
  • Plants and Herbs: Rosemary, Valerian, Elder, Slippery Elm, Myrtle, Violet, Wormwood, Comfrey, Bittersweet.
  • Animals: Albatros, Cricket.
  • Gods and Goddesses: Hecate, Balder, Shiva, Durga, Kali, Attis, Badb, Kuan Yin.


Witchcraft Break-up Spell

Witchcraft Breakup Spell

Breaking up is hard to do. Try using a break-up spell to relieve some of the pain in breaking up. A Break-up spell does not have to be an anti-love spell. You may want to find an easy way to break off your own or another person’s relationship without either party getting hurt. You can either cast this spell on your own relationship or an unhealthy relationship of others. If someone does get hurt, you should consider adding a Heal the broken heart spell to open your or another person’s heart to love again after the break-up. Always use magic for the highest good, and this includes preventing anyone from getting hurt.

Whether you want to save your relationship or your heart, magic can help you feel an instant change.

Ingredients for the Witchcraft Breakup Spell:

  • Four black candles
  • Lavender Incense
  • Ginger Oil
  • Sheet of Paper
  • Thyme
  • Salt
  • Basil
  • Sea Salt
  • Cayenne Pepper
  • Cauldron or fireproof dish
  • Charcoal
  • One tbs of rainwater
  • One tbs of dirt
  • Matches
  • Shovel

Casting the Witchcraft Break-Up Spell:

Take the sea salt and cast a circle. Make the circle large enough so you can stand within the circle and perform the ritual.

Anoint the candles with Ginger Oil and place the four candles at the cardinal positions of the circle. One candle to the West, one to the East, one to the South, and the last one to the North.

Place the cauldron or fireproof dish in the center of the circle. Light the candles and step into the circle and kneel down. When lighting candles, it is essential to do so consciously. Light the Incense with the flame of the candle that represents the East. Write the names of the couple you wish to break up on the piece of paper using the charcoal. If you want to break up your own relationship, write your name and your partner’s name on the paper.

Sprinkle some ginger oil over the names. Tear it into three pieces and put them into the cauldron. Add the cayenne pepper, salt, basil, and thyme. With the candle that represents the West, add some drops of Wax on top of it.

While doing so, say the following:

With all the Powers of the West

Please fulfill my urging request

Repeat this step with the candle that represents the South and say:

With all the Powers of the South

Break-up and say it with your mouth

While doing the same with the candle that represents the East, say:

With all the Powers of the East

You must leave because your love has much decreased

With the candle in the North position, say:

With all the Powers of the North

My plea is to bring the break-up fourth

Focus intensely on your wish to break up the couple and for them to end their relationship. Put yourself in a deep state of meditation or trance and visualize the break-up and how things will change.

Now, burn the contents in the cauldron and then burn the ashes.

Add the rainwater and the dirt, mix everything thoroughly and put the mixture in the envelope or pouch.

Let the candles burn out completely.

Bury the pouch or envelope in a shady location next to a tree.

When You Need a Break-Up Spell

There are many situations when you may need a break-up spell. It is most commonly used when you are in love with someone that is in a relationship with another person. But there are other uses as well. You know when you want to be with someone, and you know when you want to separate. However, your emotions may give you mixed signals and make it difficult to come to terms with a situation. Maybe you still love the person you are with, but you know in your mind that the relationship has no future and that it really needs to end. There are also cases when you see a loved one in an extremely unhealthy and toxic relationship, and this person cannot end it. A break-up spell can take this person out of your life or another person’s life without creating a mess with negative emotions. In these cases, following up with a Heal a Broken Heart Spell and a True Love Spell is always beneficial.

Use this Break-Up Spell to Counteract Other Love Spells

A break-up spell can also counteract a spell that someone may have cast on you. If you are open to loving someone but know that you do not want to have those amorous feelings, then you can use this spell to get rid of those feelings so that you can move on.


White Magic Breakup Spell

White Magic Break-up Spell to Remove a Rival

Use this white magic spell if you wish to bring about a couple’s break-up.

A word of caution, however, when working with spells such as this one: white magic is not intended to be hurtful or manipulative. Instead, the purpose of white magic is to utilize the positive energies of the universe to bring about positive changes in our own lives and the lives of others.

Before using this spell, you should think carefully about what you are doing and why. If you require a professional spell caster to cast a break-up spell for you, please click here for our recommendation.

How this White Magic Break-up Spell can help you

Do you have your eye on someone who just happens to be ever-so-happily married?

If this is the case, perhaps you should adopt a watch-and-wait approach to the situation before attempting this break-up spell. If a couple’s love is meant to be, there is not much you can do about it, and this spell will probably not work for your intended purpose. You can’t use white magic to alter the threads that destiny has woven, no matter how badly you want something or someone.

If, however, you believe that you are truly meant to be with someone who just happens to be one-half of a seemingly happy couple at present, then this spell can be highly effective. It can break up a relationship with no future and effectively remove rivals and unwanted third parties. Or, if you know someone in an unhappy or abusive relationship who does not have the courage to leave, then you could use this break-up ritual to change this troubled relationship.

Once the spell has been cast, be patient and trust that the higher powers will guide you to your best possible romantic future.

Ingredients needed for the White Magic Break-up Spell

  • Three blue candles
  • Three drops of clove oil
  • One envelope
  • Blue ink
  • Three pieces of paper
  • Jasmine Oil
  • Cauldron or fireproof bowl

How to Cast the White Magic Break-Up Spell

Cast your circle and anoint the candles with the Jasmine Oil.

Light the candles and use the blue ink to write your loved one’s name and your name on one piece of paper. Focus intensely on your loved one.

Write the name of your competition, rival, or unwanted third party on the second piece of paper.

Take the third piece of paper and write down at least three positive wishes for your rival with blue ink. For example:

  1. I wish them love and happiness with another person
  2. I wish for them to find their true soul mate
  3. I wish for them to find love and happiness in another town

It is imperative to send them positive wishes. The energies of this white magic spell will be most effective in pulling the rival away from your loved one when they too will find happiness. This way, you also ensure that you do not attract any negative energy towards yourself or suffer any consequences from the threefold law.

Next, use the clove oil and add one drop of oil to each piece of paper.

Fold the papers and put them in the envelope.

Keep this envelope under your pillow or your mattress for seven nights.

On the 8th night, burn the envelope in a cauldron or bowl and spread the ashes out in nature.


Black Magic Breakup Spell

Black Magic Break-up Spell

This break-up spell is black magic and should only be used under extreme circumstances. It involves burning belongings from both the male and the female in the love equation. If you do not have the couple’s belongings, you’ll find substitutes and replacements within the Questions and Answers at the end of the article.

One of the easiest things to burn is a piece of paper that was in their possession, as it is much harder to burn a piece of clothing or jewelry. However, even if the objects only partially burn, the spell will still work.

If you cannot find black figure candles, you can also use regular black taper candles.

Items needed for the Black Magic Break-up Spell

  • Silver platter
  • Black velvet fabric.
  • Male figure candle in black
  • Female figure candle in black
  • Item belonging to the male
  • Item belonging to the female

How to Cast the Black Magic Break-up Spell

Arrange the black velvet fabric on the silver platter. Place the items belonging to the couple in question in the center of the platter on the black fabric. Place the female figure black candle to the left and the male to the platter’s right. Place them so their backs are facing away from each other. If you are casting the spell for a gay couple, simply use candles that represent the gender of each person.

Next, light both candles and burn them for thirteen minutes while visualizing the real-life couple breaking up. Build up enough magical energy while you focus on your wishes. There is no time limit; make sure to build up as much energy as possible.

Blow out the candles and toss the hot stubs on the items/platter. Fold the items in black fabric, and then go to a crossroads far away from your home. Dispose of the spell remnants down a gutter grate that has running water. If you can’t find a gutter grate, throw them in a river, stream, or ocean.

Warning about Black Magic Break-up Spells

Black magic can be a dangerous yet powerful form of magic that can enable you to control, manipulate, or harm others. Black magic should be used sparingly, and you must consider all possible repercussions and more positive alternatives before resorting to black magic to solve your problems. This Break-up spell works by bending the wills of others to your own will. Therefore you can use this spell if you want to cause a couple’s break-up by imposing your own will on their relationship and overpowering their own desires with your own.

Say, for example, you want your neighbor and her husband to break up because you want him for yourself. You could cast this spell to destroy their relationship, thereby enabling you to step in and get what you want: your neighbor’s husband.

Always beware, however, when you work with black magic. The outcome will probably not be the positive thing you may have been hoping for. You can never foresee all of the unintended consequences of black magic. The dark powers may grant your desire, but at what cost? Before using black magic, ask yourself if you are prepared to deal with all of the consequences of your spell.


Questions and Answers

Jasmine Oil can be replaced with Rosemary Oil, Valerian Oil, or Violet Oil.

Please use the items that belong to him in the ritual. If you do not have anything that belongs to her, use an item that represents her. You will find more information in the next question.

You can use any item and charge it with their energy before casting the spell. Either on the same day or in advance. Take a white candle, inscribe it with your loved one’s name, put it on your altar, and light it. Use a white candle for your loved one, the friend you want to help, or for yourself if you’re going to break up your own relationship. Now take the item you want to associate with the person, and put it in front of the candle. If you have a picture of the person, also put it there.

Let the candle burn for about 3 hours, then snuff out the candle. The item is now ready to use in the ritual.

To charge an item with the energy of the unwanted third party. Take a black candle and inscribe it with their name. Follow the same steps mentioned above and let the candle burn for 3 hours.

Use a word or symbol to represent her. Such as gender or nickname.

The best moon phase for ending a relationship is the waning moon phase.

The Witchcraft Breakup Spell listed above is best suited for your situation.

Yes, you can cast any of the spells listed on this page on your sister’s behalf.


21 thoughts on “Break-up Spells – Breaking up a Couple or Removing a Rival

  1. Bonbon says:

    It hurts to see the one you are meant to be with, with another person. I am so sad and frustrated, there are definitely outside interference and forces at play here. It’s not normal for my man to leave me like that. I need him back, I don’t believe he left because he really wanted to leave, but because the other woman did something to him, a binding spell? It happened overnight. That’s why I want to cast a good spell to break them up permanently and make it right again. I hope it works so that I can break them up, and bring back my love fast. I don’t want to watch my lover with another person, I need a spell for them to separate and have a quick break-up, but one that is safe and has no repercussions. Which one of these spells is best?

  2. Celeste says:

    My ex fiance left me and is now with another girl only problem is he’s cheating on her with me. He’s going back & forth about us and our relationship and his relationship with this other girl. It hurts so much because I was with him for 5 years and he’s only been with this girl for a few months. I’m not sure what to do but this pain is eating at me. I swear this girl did something to him too.

  3. Katesine Rose says:


    My name is Katesine Rose. I want to leave my husband because I do not love him anymore. I want him to go away for ever and never to come back or bother me again. I am in love with another man whom I met 13 years ago and we have been seeing each other from time to time even though I got married.

    Please help

    • Reni says:

      This sounds like my relationship with my fiance. I live with my Fiance for 6 and a half years! But he became involved with someone he knew before me and she is his realtor. She lives down the street from us! Actually around the corner from our home! It seems that this happens a lot with men who are heartless. Also, they act like it’s impossible for you to ever find out. Then, when you question them about what they are doing, they will deny everything. My fiance tells me that I am crazy and delusional, even though there is so much evidence of his cheating. I want out of this relationship. He makes me sick. I want a better life for myself and no longer want to be treated like this. I will cast the break up spell and then a spell to attract my true love. I deserve better.

  4. Teeni says:

    Hi, can you please recommend a good love spell to bring lust and passion between me and my lover? Actually we love each other very much as well as fight also a lot. But i want only love to prevail. Please help. Thank you 💗

    • Wishbonix says:

      Yes, you can use a picture. Or, alternatively, you can charge an item with her energy. The steps are explained in the Questions and Answers listed above.

  5. Liliana says:

    I’ve been married to my husband for 2 years, our marriage at first was super great, I was sooo happy in love. Three months ago I cam to find out he cheated on me in the Dominican Republic. When I confronted him about it he told me it happened for 8 months. I was super upset and angry, all I thought about was getting a divorce, we both cried and he told me didn’t want to to get divorced and he wants us to work it out. He blocked her from his phone and she still finds her way to contact him. I love my husband even though I feel hurt. The woman is in the Dominican Republic, what kind of spells can you recommend me so she could leave out of our life for good and never hear from her again?

  6. Rosemarie says:

    My soulmate and I were in a long distance relationship, but looking for a home together in state that I reside in. A week ago out of the blue he sends me a text saying he has met someone else and wants to give it a try as his fears about moving are too strong. We love each other very much , so I am at a loss. Which spell would you suggest. I do not know the other woman’s name.
    Thank you.

  7. Cat says:

    For the black magic break up spell what if I don’t know the person my ex is seeing? I don’t know her name or anything and don’t have anything of hers to use.

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