White Magic Love Spells

Last Updated on November 9, 2026 by Wishbonix

White magic love spells are the gentlest form of love magic. They follow one simple rule: harm none. Instead of trying to control another person’s heart, they open yours, draw the right love toward you, and bless the love you already share. That’s why they’re the love spells most witches and spell casters are happy to cast, and the safest ones to try yourself.

On this page you’ll learn what makes a love spell “white”, how to tell white and black love magic apart, and how to cast five easy white magic love spells that work at home: a love letter to the universe, a two-candle spell with Aphrodite and Venus, a chocolate and cherry love bath, a white candle spell to bring love back, and a rose quartz self-love spell. You’ll also find tips for preparing your spell, the signs it’s working, and how to help it along.

White magic love spells are one branch of our guide to love spells. To learn more about white magic in general, its history and principles, see our main guide to white magic.

What Makes a Love Spell White Magic?

White magic isn’t one tradition. It’s a way of practicing magic, based on a simple belief: magic should heal and help, never harm. A love spell is white magic when:

• It respects free will. It doesn’t try to make a specific person love you against their wishes.
• It harms no one. Not the other person, not their partner, and not you.
• It works with love, not against it. It draws love in, opens your heart or blesses a relationship where the love is shared.
• It’s cast from a good place. Hope, kindness and self-respect, not jealousy, revenge or desperation.

Why White Magic Love Spells Sometimes Surprise You

White magic gives you what you truly need, not always what you asked for. You may cast a spell hoping for one person and find that someone else, someone kinder and better suited to you, comes into your life instead. Many practitioners see this as the spell working at its best: it looks past our wishes to our real happiness.

White Magic vs Black Magic Love Spells

	White magic love spells	Black magic love spells
Goal	Draw love in, open your heart, bless a relationship	Bend or control another person’s feelings
Free will	Always respected	Often overridden
Typical targets	“The right person for me”, yourself, your shared relationship	A specific person, sometimes someone in a relationship
Risk	Gentle; may bring a different love than expected	Can backfire, bringing unhappiness to the caster

Read more about the darker side in our guide to black magic love spells, and about Wiccan ethics like “an it harm none” in our page on witchcraft and Wiccan love spells.

White Witches and Love Magic: A Short History

The idea of “white” magic goes back centuries. In the villages of Britain and Europe, people called the local healers and charmers white witches, or cunning folk, to set them apart from those suspected of harmful magic. They were trusted to cure ailments, find lost things and, very often, help with matters of the heart: a charm to win a sweetheart, a blessing for a marriage, or a remedy for a broken heart. In the 20th century, modern Wicca gave the same idea a clear rule, “an it harm none”, and today most witches who call themselves white witches still put love and healing at the center of their craft.

Which White Magic Love Spell Should You Choose?

Spell	Best for	Time needed
1. Love Letter to the Universe	Describing and calling in the partner you hope for	30 minutes
2. Two-Candle Spell with Aphrodite and Venus	A faithful, true partner, with a charm you carry	One evening
3. Chocolate and Cherry Love Bath	Feeling loved and lovable while drawing love in	One evening
4. White Candle Spell to Bring Love Back	A relationship that has cooled, or an ex who still cares	Seven evenings
5. Rose Quartz Self-Love Spell	Healing your heart and becoming ready for love	15 minutes a day for a week

How to Prepare for a White Magic Love Spell

The secret to love spells that work is knowing exactly what you want, and being careful what you wish for.

• Be clear and specific. Think about the qualities you want in a partner or in your relationship.
• Don’t ask for “everlasting” love. If you later want to leave, a spell for forever can make it harder. Ask for love that is true and good for you instead.
• Choose your timing. Friday, the day of Venus, and the waxing moon or full moon are best for love.
• Prepare yourself. Take a relaxing bath, put on clothes and jewelry that make you feel beautiful, and spend a few minutes in quiet meditation. Our guide on how to prepare for a spell has more ideas.
• Set the mood. A pink candle anointed with lavender oil and a little vanilla incense create a gentle, loving atmosphere for any of the spells below.

1. Love Letter to the Universe

This is one of the simplest white magic love spells there is, and one of the most charming. You write a love letter describing the partner you hope for, seal it with perfume, petals and a kiss, and let the universe do the rest. It only works for the qualities you want in a partner, not for a specific person.

What You Will Need

• A sheet of lined paper
• A red pen
• An envelope
• Your favorite perfume
• Your favorite red or pink lipstick
• A few pink or red flower petals

How to Cast the Spell

1. On a Friday close to the full moon, sit somewhere quiet with your ingredients.
2. With the red pen, write down all the qualities you want in a partner. Be as specific as you can: how they treat you, what you laugh about together, what values you share.
3. Spritz the letter with your perfume and fold it in thirds.
4. Put the letter in the envelope. Picture love and happiness in your life and drop the petals in with your right hand.
5. Seal the envelope, put on the lipstick and kiss the seal.
6. Keep the envelope in a safe, peaceful place, and don’t open it.

2. Two-Candle Spell with Aphrodite and Venus

This spell calls on Aphrodite and Venus, the Greek and Roman goddesses of love, to bring you a partner who is faithful, true and loves you for who you are. The pink candle stands for the first spark of love, and the red candle for a strong, trusting partnership. Where the love letter works through words on paper, this one works through candle flame and a charged rose quartz that you carry with you afterward, so the spell goes wherever you go.

What You Will Need

• A pink candle and a red candle, with heat-safe holders
• A rose quartz, ideally heart-shaped and small enough to carry
• The Two of Cups tarot card (optional), the card of a loving, equal partnership
• A sprig of purple lilac, or dried lavender if lilac isn’t in season
• A few red or pink flower petals
• Your favorite perfume

How to Cast the Spell

1. Build a small altar. On a Friday during the waxing moon, set the two candles side by side with the Two of Cups between them. Lay the lilac and petals around them as an offering to the goddesses, and place the rose quartz in front.
2. Call on the goddesses. Hold the rose quartz to your heart and say:
   

   Aphrodite and Venus, bring me a lover
   who is faithful and true.
   Let them love me for who I am,
   and let me love them for who they are.

3. Light the pink candle and say:
   

   Let the first feelings of love touch this unknown person and me.
   Let our love be friendship and romance together.

4. Light the red candle and say:
   

   Our bond will be strong.
   We will trust each other, be ourselves,
   and help each other through whatever comes.

5. Charge the stone. Hold the rose quartz in both hands between the two flames, without touching them, and picture the safety and warmth you’ll feel with this person. Then put on a little of your perfume; wear this scent whenever you go somewhere you might meet someone new.
6. Close the spell. Let the candles burn for at least an hour while you stay in the room, then snuff them out. Carry the rose quartz in your pocket or bag, and leave the lilac and petals under a tree or in your garden as a thank-you.

3. Chocolate and Cherry Love Bath

This decadent bath spell draws love to you while you pamper yourself. Milk softens the skin, chocolate is linked with pleasure and romance, and cherries, a classic fruit of love, stand for sweetness and sensuality. Nine cherries are used because nine is the number of completion and fulfilled wishes.

What You Will Need

• About two-thirds of a cup of chocolate milk (or a few spoons of cocoa powder stirred into warm milk)
• Nine fresh, dark cherries
• A pink candle (optional)

How to Take the Love Bath

1. Take this bath on the night of the full moon, or on one of the nine nights before it.
2. Run a warm bath, light the pink candle in a safe spot nearby, and pour the chocolate milk into the water. It will turn the water a soft, pinkish brown.
3. Add the nine cherries and step into the bath.
4. Eat the cherries one by one. With each one, picture a happy moment with the love you’re drawing to you: a first date, a kiss, laughing together.
5. Relax and enjoy the feeling of being loved. When you’re done, rinse off with fresh water and snuff out the candle.

Rinse the bath out well afterward. Skip this bath if you’re allergic to milk, cocoa or cherries.

4. White Candle Spell to Bring Love Back

Can white magic bring back a lost love? Yes, as long as the love is still there on both sides. This gentle spell doesn’t pull anyone back against their will. It sends warmth, forgiveness and an open door to a partner who has grown distant or an ex who still cares, and asks for the two of you to find your way back if it is for the highest good of both.

What You Will Need

• A white pillar candle that can burn over seven evenings, and a heat-safe holder
• A white rose
• A little rose oil
• A small piece of paper and a pen

How to Cast the Spell

1. Write your wish. On a Friday during the waxing moon, write both your names on the paper, and below them: “If our love is true and good for us both, let us find our way back to each other.”
2. Anoint the candle with a little rose oil, from the middle up and the middle down, and place the folded paper under the holder.
3. Light it and speak. Hold the white rose and say:
   

   With a white flame and an open heart,
   I forgive what pulled us apart.
   If love still lives between us two,
   let it find its way back, kind and true.

4. Burn for a short while. Let the candle burn for 15 minutes while you picture a calm, happy conversation between you, then snuff it out.
5. Repeat for seven evenings, plucking one petal from the rose each night and laying it beside the candle.
6. Close. On the seventh evening, let the candle burn down while you stay with it. Bury the petals and the paper under a tree.

If your ex has clearly moved on, the spell won’t override that, and it shouldn’t. For more ways to reconcile, see our spells to bring back a lost lover.

5. Rose Quartz Self-Love Spell

Every white witch will tell you that love magic starts with yourself. When you feel worthy of love, you stop chasing the wrong people and start drawing the right ones. This week-long spell uses rose quartz, the stone of unconditional love, to fill your own heart first.

What You Will Need

• A rose quartz you can hold in your hand
• A small mirror
• A pink candle and a heat-safe holder

How to Cast the Spell

1. Each evening for seven days, starting on a Friday or the new moon, light the pink candle and hold the rose quartz to your heart.
2. Look into the mirror and name three things you like about yourself: one about how you look, one about who you are, and one thing you did well today.
3. Say:
   

   I am worthy of love, and love is worthy of me.
   As I love myself, so shall it be.

4. Snuff the candle and keep the rose quartz under your pillow while you sleep.

After the seventh day, carry the rose quartz with you. Many people find that once they’ve done this spell, the other love spells on this page work faster.

More White Magic Love Spells

White magic love spells cover far more than finding a partner. Here are other gentle spells for every stage of love:

• True love spells to attract your soulmate
• Full moon honey jar to sweeten a relationship
• Commitment spells for a deeper bond, and marriage spells to bless a union
• Attraction spells to draw a specific person’s attention gently
• Spells to heal a broken relationship
• Spells to mend a broken heart and let go of a past love

How to Help Your Love Spell Work

Spell casting is more than words and candles. You are the most important ingredient in your magic.

• Take responsibility for your life. Let go of blaming others for what has happened. It frees your energy for something new.
• Build your self-confidence. Love is drawn to people who value themselves.
• Meditate and visualize. Spend a few minutes each day picturing the love you want. Focus creates strong energy.
• Be patient. Give your spell at least one moon cycle. If nothing changes, you can cast it again.
• Meet the spell halfway. Go out, meet people, and be open when love shows up in an unexpected form.

Signs Your White Magic Love Spell Is Working

• You feel calmer, more confident and more open to love.
• New people come into your life, or old friends reconnect.
• Someone shows interest in you unexpectedly, sometimes not the person you imagined.
• An existing relationship feels warmer and easier.
• You notice love symbols around you: hearts, pairs of birds, a song that keeps playing.

Getting Help from a White Magic Spell Caster

Many people prefer to have an experienced white witch cast a love spell for them. A genuine white magic practitioner will never offer to make a specific person love you, break up a couple, or promise guaranteed results. If someone does, they’re not practicing white magic. Read our guide to avoiding fake spell casters, and see how we choose the practitioners on our page of trusted spell casters.

Frequently Asked Questions

Are white magic love spells safe?

Yes. Because they respect free will and harm no one, white magic love spells are the safest kind of love magic to cast yourself.

Do white magic love spells really work?

They work by opening your heart and drawing the right love to you. Many people find that love arrives in unexpected ways, sometimes in the form of someone they didn’t expect.

Can a white magic love spell make a specific person love me?

No. That would override their free will, which goes against the core of white magic. A white magic spell can draw the right person to you, or strengthen love that’s already shared.

Can white magic bring back an ex?

It can help if the love is still there on both sides. The White Candle Spell to Bring Love Back sends warmth and forgiveness and opens the door, but it won’t pull back someone who has truly moved on.

What is the most powerful white magic love spell?

For finding love, the Two-Candle Spell with Aphrodite and Venus, because you carry its charged rose quartz with you. For your own heart, the Rose Quartz Self-Love Spell, which makes every other love spell stronger.

What’s the best time to cast a white magic love spell?

Fridays are ideal because they belong to Venus. Choose a night when the moon is growing or full.

Can I cast a white magic love spell for a friend?

Yes, if they want you to. The love letter and two-candle spells work well when cast together with a friend.

How long does a white magic love spell take to work?

Usually a few weeks to one or two moon cycles. White magic often works gently, through everyday chances and new meetings.